Do not seek marriage
Seek humour
Seek dignity
Seek adventure
Seek reliability
Do not seek marriage
Seek vulnerability
Seek strength
Seek kindness
Seek lust
Do not seek marriage
Seek independence
Seek intelligence
Seek passion
Seek friendship
Do not seek marriage
Wait for it to find you
With the realization
That all it will give you
Is a label
For what you already have
People who are fine with white nationalism will be voting.
People who are OK with kids in cages will be voting.
People who are good with Kurds being murdered will be voting.
People who are terrified of LGBTQ people will be voting.
People who believe FoxNews is objective truth will be voting.
People who think Trump was sent by God will be voting.
Politicians are NOT all “just as bad”. If you don’t vote, you are standing aside while the worst of them take your silence as consent to screw over you and your children and every living thing on the planet.
If you refuse to vote, you are making a statement. That statement is, “Do what you want with me, and my friends, and my family, and every helpless person at your mercy. I will not lift a finger to stop you.”
Conservative Christians believe their rights are in peril partly because that’s what they’re hearing, quite explicitly, from conservative media, religious elites, partisan commentators and some politicians, including the president. The survey evidence suggests another reason, too. Their fear comes from an inverted golden rule: Expect from others what you would do unto them. White evangelical Protestants express low levels of tolerance for atheists, which leads them to expect intolerance from atheists in return. That perception surely bolsters their support for Trump. They believe their freedom depends on keeping Trump and his party in power.
— White evangelicals fear atheists and Democrats would strip away their rights. Why?, By Paul A. Djupe
To summarize, among atheists who said they loathed Christian fundamentalists more than any other religious group, 65% still said they would be perfectly fine with those Christians having the same rights as everyone else. But among white evangelicals who hated atheists the most — even more than “white supremacists” — only 32% would say the same.
This is a core difference between the two groups and it illustrates why the “both sides are the same” argument is ridiculous. We’re not equally dogmatic but on opposite sides of the spectrum. In fact, these results just emphasize a point I’ve made repeatedly on this site: Atheists fight for religious neutrality, while white evangelicals fight for Christian supremacy.
— Study Shows White Evangelicals Want Christian Supremacy, Not “Religious Freedom”, By Hemant Mehta
“You hypocrites! Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you:
— Matthew 15:7-9
‘These people honor me with their lips,
but their hearts are far from me.
They worship me in vain;
their teachings are merely human rules.’ “
It irks me that people so consistently misunderstand the world “soul“. A whole psuedo-religion has grown up around this misunderstanding.
Be accepting, patient, and kind. Good advice any day of the year. I do not follow it as closely as I would like.
“Grudges are for the weak and self-destructive. Do you want tomorrow to be better than today? Then stop stoking the fire of yesterday’s pain.”
Brandon Blackmoor , 2019-09-11
When someone urges you to “never forget” a particular tragedy, stop and think: what exactly do they want you to remember, and why? Is it that they want to honor the memory of those who have died? Or are they trying to turn your grief into anger? Are they trying to manipulate you for your benefit, or for theirs?
What do they gain by keeping you angry?
Where are they trying to direct your anger?
Think.
Your anger might be righteous, and it might be enough to motivate you to work for change. But it might also just be an easy way for a cynical person to manipulate you.
“A complex system that works is invariably found to have evolved from a simple system that worked. A complex system designed from scratch never works and cannot be patched up to make it work. You have to start over with a working simple system.”
— John Gall, “Systemantics: How Systems Really Work and How They Fail” (1975)
“It must be considered that there is nothing more difficult to carry out nor more doubtful of success nor more dangerous to handle than to initiate a new order of things.”
-Niccolò Machiavelli, “The Prince” (1532), Ch. 6
“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’
“Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’
“They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’
“He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’
Matthew 25:40-45
U.S. Implementing ‘Third Country’ Rule On Central American Migrants Seeking Asylum (NPR)
Here are some tips on how to have a happy marriage, from someone who has been married for 28 years, and is still happy about it.
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